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On Fri, Jul 20, 2012 at 12:35 AM, rigsy03 <rigsy03@yahoo.com> wrote:
I had another thought on self-forgiveness/morbid preoccupation: One
may have lost all perspective and forgotten the suffering in this
world and neglected to count the blessings. Then it also depends on
one's culture which might inflict a very distorted view of anything it
choses so the individual doesn't know any better. Families can also be
so dysfunctional that normal doesn't exist or develop properly.
Not sure the doctors are making profits as much as insurance and drug
companies, shrinks and "counsellors". Then, the attorneys!
On Jul 19, 11:44 am, Allan H <allanh1...@gmail.com> wrote:
> Morbid would be an excessive preoccupation with and event or sin.. Finally
> started to figure it out..
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> Yes I know of the excessive cost of people taking advantage of a program
> that can be for free. When I came into AA the rich mans programs were just
> starting.. I was to poor so they didn't want anything to do with me.. so I
> became sober the old fashion way, not drinking and going to meetings.. it
> will still work today but that is to cheap for the greedy medical
> community.
> Allan
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> Life is for moral, ethical and truthful living.- Hide quoted text -> On Thu, Jul 19, 2012 at 3:38 PM, rigsy03 <rigs...@yahoo.com> wrote:
> > Jumping in here- my idea of "morbid guilt" would be that which
> > paralyzes development past a trauma. It is different than the tumbling/
> > domino reaction that a traumatic event sparks- more like physics or
> > chemical reaction, in a way. But...what is identity?
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> > I don't find you "simple", Allan. Why do you disparage yourself? Thank
> > you for being "here" so loyally- whatever "here" means! :-)
>
> > Back to your comment about AA- essentially a seflish program of
> > necessity. Older alcoholics who had money would go to spas and
> > steambath their way to sobriety- until the next bout. I never even
> > heard of AA until I was in my 30's- at that point I joined an Alanon
> > group at a nearby church but think the divorce rate pretty high from
> > that group- it probably was part of the motive of joining up- keeping
> > score, so to speak, rather than understanding the spiritual element.
> > At the same time, treatment centers started springing up- last I
> > heard, getting sober might cost 5 figures a month. There is another
> > element now of drug addicts going to AA rather than narco-something
> > which introduces a whole new can of worms. Anyway, I think drinking
> > alone is what got me in trouble when all the children had "graduated"
> > the nest- but I was ripe, anyway. lol I really don't miss drinking but
> > have thought if I got a fatal diagnosis in the future, I might need a
> > few shots of single malt whiskey to ease the way to eternity.
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> > On Jul 19, 2:48 am, Allan H <allanh1...@gmail.com> wrote:
> > > I know I am simple James, but what do you mean by morbid guilt?
> > > Allan
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> > > On Thu, Jul 19, 2012 at 5:59 AM, James <ashkas...@gmail.com> wrote:
> > > > On 7/17/2012 6:50 AM, Molly wrote:
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> > > >> I have a friend who is contemplating self forgiveness. Any
> > suggestions?
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> > > > Look back from a context of greater maturity, in the meantime apply
> > time
> > > > and experience: pursue excellence, appreciate moderation, respect
> > processes.
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> > > > Through personal growth pieces of the story begin falling in place,
> > > > motives are replaced with expanded and stronger ones.
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> > > > Morbid guilt might be another matter, where it mixes with identity
> > seems
> > > > very elusive. I have a friend that would much appreciate your input.
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> > > |_D Allan
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> > > Life is for moral, ethical and truthful living.
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> |_D Allan
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|_D Allan
Life is for moral, ethical and truthful living.
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