Re: [Mind's Eye] Re: Destiny??? ???

you guys are right of course..... out of the little life experience that i have... i dont consider it much... 20 years... i have had experience to be thankful to the choices i made... at that moment almost recklessly... with no care for consequences.... but in perspective i am thankful for them... but as i grow.. the little worm of regret and scepticism slowly gaining ground... and i am more conscious of my choices.. and feel heavy the responsibility.. is that the spring of adulthood;-).... i know not.... my dissapproving fathers words bear heavy more than ever.... they never did before.... but i suddenly find my self questioning myself through him.... i suppose some grow to lose faith and some to find it grow firm.... So another question that comes to me...not a question.. a general wondering... of faith.... isnt for some faith another substitute for smoothe luck... if after repeated defeats someone says they dont have faith left... did they ever have faith... was faith for them a confirmation of convinience... and would you call someone.. who has seen the same amount of defeat but he clings so ever desperately to his faith... would you call him in denial.... i would like to know what you all think... and thanks for responding to me... you have no idea how much it eases my mind...  

On Wed, Jul 13, 2011 at 6:43 PM, rigsy03 <rigsy03@gmail.com> wrote:

Regret and consequences are part of the package and there is just as
likely a chance that you will feel thankful at the choices you have
made or will make but it takes time- real time- to put your life into
perspective. I think one knows very well when we are out of kilter or
untrue to our values/ourselves and the discomfort can spur change or
we can suspend ourselves in denial. Sometimes, you just have to do
nothing and Life and others do the work/outcomes! :-) Or is it God/
Destiny that intervenes?

On Jul 12, 11:43 am, "pol.science kid" <r.freeb...@gmail.com> wrote:
> How do you know.... what you really want to do...... is there one
> answer... is the more prudent answer any less equal to the one from
> deep within your heart...... i ask myself again and again .... i dont
> really know what it is i want to pursue....  how do i prevent myself
> from lying to me... am i conscious of that... Polonius's 'to thine own
> self be true'.... proves to be the most difficult thing..... its the
> fear of regret and irreversibility...... I would like to know.. from
> you guys... did you always know what you were doing.... and did you
> finally land up doing that what you want to do... or do you just
> accept the force of fate.... this is one of my spur of the moment
> posts.. cos i really have no idea,,,,,

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